By Pt. Dayananda Shastri
In case of a girl’s marriage getting delayed, make her wear new clothes during marriage talks.
If you are short of good proposals to marry off the girl, give her to wear yellow clothes on Thursday and white clothes on Friday. If these clothes are new, that’s better. Do it for 4 weeks and you will surely get good proposals. Therefore, no cloth should be repeated.
If marriage negotiation is breaking down repeatedly after reaching final stages, make it a point to put off shoes/slippers before entering the room where talks are taking place.
At the moment when bride’s side is entering prospective groom’s household, girl’s parents and other well-wishers should put left or right foot first inside the house, keeping in mind the nostril from which they are breathing.
When the parents go for marriage negotiation to groom’s house, girl dhould keep her hair open, not tie them. She should also be happy and offer sweets to them when they start.
Boys and girls of marriageable age should put a bit of mehandi meant for bride or groom, whenever they get a chance to attend a marriage ceremony.
For early marriage, the girl should keep fast for 16 consecutive Mondays and offer sacred water in a Shiva temple. She should dress up as Goddess Parvati, tie the knot between Shiva and Parvati and pray for early marriage. Marriage proposals will start pouring in.
To get her wish for a suitable groom fulfilled, girl should worship Shiva-Parvati and complete one round of following mantra-
ऊँ नमः मनोभिलाषितं वरं देहि वरं ही ऊँ गोरा पार्वती देव्यै नमः”।
If one reads verses related to the marriage of Shiva and Parvati in the Balkand of Ramcharit Manas everyday, wishes of early marriage are fulfilled.
Marriageable boys and girls should pour sacred water over shivaling and place 108 flowers over it, chanting the mantra Om Namah Shivaya and praying for early marriage, on Fridays. Also offer 21 Belpatras to Lord Shiva. Do it for 7 consecutive Fridays, marriage proposals will start coming in.
On Thursdays, offer Kalangi ( Which is there at the top of the ‘Sehra’) in Vishnu Laxmi temple, along with 5 laddoos and pray for quick marriage.
These are very simple measures, which every marriage-wishing individual can do easily. And if he/she does that with devotion and dedication, his wish would be fulfilled. The girl gets married quickly as well. However, if these measures are not able to hasten the process of marriage, it indicates problems with the stars in the horoscope. In that case, following tantric procedure is advised…
Kamdev Rati YantraMarriage-wishing boy/girl should procure a Kamdev Rati Yantra. Rise early in the morning, take bath and give ‘arghya’ to Sun God for 7 times and then sit on an asan. Take a wooden cart and establish Kamdev rati Yantra over a new piece of cloth. Worship the Yantra with panchamopachar. Chant the following mantra with devotion for 1lakh and 25 thousand times. If you do it with dedication, proposals should start giving positive signs.
Vivah Badha Niwaran Yantra ( Marriage hindrance removal Yantra)
Those, whose son/daughter is/are of marriageable age, marriage is getting unduly delayed, engagement is broken or there is hindrance in the horoscope, should follow the following tantric procedure. It would hasten the process of marriage. It can be started on a Tuesday. The prospective bride/groom or their parents themselves can do it or can seek the help of a priest. Following articles are needed for it…
Rise early in the morning, take bath and sit with a wooden cart in front of you. Put a new piece of cloth over it and establish the Yantra over it. Clean it first with milk and then water, rinse it with a clean piece of cloth. Offer vermillion, flowers and akshat to Yantra.
Offer prayers to the Guru and seek his blessings for the success of the tantric procedure. Take water, flower, akshat in the right hand and utter sankalpa, that you are doing it to erase hinfrances to quick marriage. Do 11 rounds of Soubhagya Mala with the following mantra for 21 days, without any break. After 21 days are completed, put the Yantra and Soubhagya mala in a river/flowing water. The obstructions are erased.
ऊँ हो कामदेवाय रत्यै सर्व दोष निवारणाय फट्”
Durga Saptashati PathIf the Son is not getting married, unexpected obstructions creating problems, do the Dutga Saptashati Mantra with samput.
पत्नि मनोरमां देहि मनोवृत्तानुसारिणीय।
तारिणिं दुर्गासंसार सागरस्य कुलोद्भणामं ।।”
It’s better if the marriage seekers do it themselves, proposals will start coming in. Marriageable girl should sleep in the room where fresh air comes. Obstructions are erased automatically.